Hephzibah's Gist Blog

IF HE CAN CHEAT ON YOU, THEN HE CAN KILL YOU. A woman can cheat on her man and still love him but a man cannot cheat on his woman and still love her. I say this because while women do not have sex with emotions, men can’t have sex without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason women simply need a place to have sex while men need a reason to have sex. Most men who take their wives to court for divorce are those that cheat on their women. A non cheating man would most likely never take his wife to court for divorce, unless the woman exceedingly abuses him physically and emotionally to the point of killing him. Women don’t equate sex with love. A woman can have sex with another man but still doesn’t love him. That’s why men who fell in love with married women find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married women. But once a married man starts sleeping with you, he can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning his w...

I saw one letter like that that was allegedly written by Nigerian Husband's. On behalf of Nigerian wives, I have responded (I just swapped the genders are tweaked a bit). Brethren, I hope you like it oooo *LETTER TO OUR HUSBANDS FROM 'THE COMMITTEE OF WIVES'.* 1. Go and slim down. Do not let people take you for our father when indeed you are our husband. We love to see you exercise and eat less. 2. Mind and control your tongue. 3. Keep the house clean. 4. Be hospitable, how you receive our friends and families matter to us. Make them feel welcome by coming out to greet them, serve them water if there is no drink. 5. Dress neatly and smart always, look good for us. 6. Do not disrespect us, we want to feel respected even with our imperfections, correct us with respect. 7. Treat us like a queen, make us feel important and we shall treat you back as our kings. 9. Do not always claim right. 10. Be polite always. 11. Be quick to say "I am sorry". ...

Prologue:  I saw a post from someone called MSpices on Aishatu's wall titled "Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women". I decided to mirror the post by changing every " he" to "she", " husband " to "wife" and vice versa. I hope you like it. Enjoy... Strange Men The world is increasingly going through the challenges of modernization throwing up pressure to marriages. Smart phones and other IT devices are delivering nudes, new wave of friendship down to the bedrooms of people. A woman could be talking with her husband in the bedroom while she’s chatting with another man without the knowledge of her husband. All these have piled up pressures on husbands seeking to have stable marriages. Here are some ways to secure your wife from strange men and secure your marriage. Serve Her What She Likes During jokes or conversations, your wife would have told you what she likes and without being told, a husband should know...